Picture this: A mom helping her kids with socks and shoes, putting toothpaste on toothbrushes, handing each child his backpack and lunch box as he walks out the door.

Mornings are usually busy during school time. But then, this should happen only for a week or two. As the days go by, you'll back off and give only verbal and visual cues: "It's time to get your socks on; I'll watch you do it."

By thoughtfully withdrawing your support, you give your children the opportunity to grasp hold of their responsibilities.

* Explain how life is going to change. A week prior to the first day, offer a precise description of the morning routine: "I'll wake you up at 5:30, you need to be dressed by 6:30 for breakfast. I expect you ready with your backpack, lunch and coat to walk out the door at 7 o'clock." Young children need practice.

* Start getting kids in bed early. Begin a week before school gets underway. You can't force them to sleep, but you can see they're snuggled in bed looking at books.

* Get yourself up and ready first. All goes more smoothly those first days when you're available to guide your children each step of the way.

* Give reminders. Most kids learn to move through the morning routine in a timely fashion. Others need reminders until high school graduation.

* Avoid yelling and harsh treatment. Negative ingredients can quickly become embedded in the routine. No parent likes sending their child out the door after a screaming match.

* Tack on an additional task. Once the morning schedule becomes routine, you can add an element: throwing dirty clothes in the hamper, making beds, putting together lunches.

Remember your goal: You want your children up and out the door on time, and to move securely through the school day so each can reach her academic potential.

Source: FamilyFun